Sex Toys for Every Body Type and Ability (2026)

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to games aimed at providing accessibility or inclusion, just as there’s no one type of disability. Very few toys or brands are actually made with people with disabilities at the forefront, and this is the exception Cute little fucksa sex toy brand owned by people with disabilities and transgender people. (I tested three of the brand’s toys mentioned above.)

So instead, I thought about my own needs as someone with upper-extremity disabilities, and I talked to other disabled people, including those who use wheelchairs or have lower-body disabilities, to find out what they’re looking for in their sex toys. This included tools such as slings, pillows, and chairs that assist with positioning during sex (or solo play). (More on that below.)

Since I have a vaginal and upper limb disability, many of the toys I tested were aimed at people like me, but many of them, like the G-spot toys and clitoral toys linked to the app, have similar versions with the same in-app features, except for people with penises or those who prefer anal play.

I took many factors into consideration, including weight, height, and size; Whether the toy is easy to hold or can be fixed; If you can lie on it or use it in multiple positions; And whether it can be controlled via buttons (and how hard they are to press), within the app, or using the remote. Once an individual realizes what they need from a toy to make it suitable for their body and abilities, it will be easier to narrow down the toy that would work best.

I tested several sex toy holders, including ones that can be placed in the pillow to set up or lie down, and sex toy holders that suction to surfaces or lock in place. I also tested several toys that a person can grind, lie on, or sit on.

I was unable to test A Hand harness To keep the toy in your hand, as it doesn’t fit my small hand, but this can be a more controlled way to hold a sex toy rather than holding it with pillows, grinding, or using a surface holder.

the Editor wedge I also highly recommended it, but I also wasn’t able to test it. This angled pillow makes sex easier for those in non-standard bodies or for those in pain, as they can get into the angles and positions needed to relieve pressure. As I mentioned above, the pad also helps achieve deeper penetration with partners with smaller penises or larger bodies, where genital access may be more difficult without additional assistance.

Brands like IntimateRider Creating sex chairs and accessories for wheelchair users, paraplegics, and others with spinal cord injuries and similar disabilities where traditional sex may not be an option without these valuable tools.