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My first sex The toy was a bright blue dildo. I was about 19 years old, and as a college student in New Hampshire, I did what anyone in my position would have done: I raced to the nearest town to find a sex shop. With my best friend, I was in and out of the world of condoms on Newbury Street so quickly that I barely had time to grab a condom. First sex toy I saw it, I paid for it, and I kept my head down the whole time. To say that the early 2000s were different when it came to acceptance of sex toys would be a massive understatement.
In my small town mind, these things were something that shouldn’t be discussed, the very definition of a taboo word. But it wasn’t taboo enough to keep me from buying that blue, battery-powered monstrosity with its veins and exaggerated head. I was embarrassed by it from day one, and even more so after I used it, with no understanding of what I was supposed to get out of it.
With age came wisdom
As I got to know my body better, exploring it on my own or during sex with a partner, with other toys I purchased, I came to a realization. As much as I love penetration with my partner(s), I didn’t particularly enjoy dildos. I found them to be impersonal, poorly designed, and because I wouldn’t be able to orgasm from a simulated G-spot until my late 30s, on a pleasure level, these things weren’t for me. That didn’t stop me from trying to get something from them, especially when I started out Writing about sexual wellness Suddenly the world of sex toys and the latest innovations were at my fingertips.
My feelings about dildos changed radically with Lilo Gigi 3. Finally, an internal dildo has a flat head, as opposed to a cone shape, which means it covers a larger area of the G-spot area. News flash, this is exactly what I needed after all this time. While many other dildos have round heads, which many people love, the flat head of the Gigi 3 is what really sets it apart.
It’s not just the shape of the head, but the way the stimulus is distributed. Because the eight vibration modes are delivered through the flat head, the sensations are more intense and rumbling, which means I can feel them branching out and reaching more nerve endings. People with vulvas are often taught that when it comes to sexual pleasure, the focus should be on the clitoris or the G-spot — or both at once — but the truth is that the entire area is packed with nerve endings. Hence, the reason why people with a vulva can experience orgasms outside of these two areas, such as the A-spot (anterior fornix) and the U-spot (urethral sponge).
When size matters
I’m not a size queen. I’m the first to admit that smaller is better when it is Coming to the external shakers. However, when it comes to internal vibrators, the size and shape of the shaft matters. The Gigi 3 is the perfect size for G-spot stimulation. Even those who haven’t yet officially found their G-spot can’t miss it when using the Gigi 3 because the length of the shaft and its slight arc put this flat head exactly where every guy with a vulva wants it. For me, I like to put a few drops of it on Water-based lubrication On top of Gigi 3’s head and shaft, I make myself comfortable, then slide it inside. From there, I can melt into the moment without fumbling for buttons (the Gigi 3 is controlled through the app).
When I’m not in the mood for internal play, the flat head of the Gigi 3 is great for direct clitoral stimulation or stimulating other parts of the vulva. As I’ve learned, just because the labia doesn’t have as many nerve endings as the clitoris, doesn’t mean they like to be ignored.
Is the Lelo Gigi 3 my favorite sex toy? No, depending on the day and my mood, my favorite sex toys and vibrators change. But, if you’re the type of woman who has a vulva and has never liked dildos, the Gigi 3 could be your ticket to sexual pleasure. It can also be delivered to the venue if you prefer Clitoral stimulationbut you want the vibrations to include more than just the outer tip of your clitoris. Although the Gigi 3 can be used anywhere, internally and externally, if you have a vulva, this is a must-have.